3 Tips for Winning Your Child Custody Case in Pennsylvania

Legally reviewed by:
Rubin, Glickman, Steinberg & Gifford P.C.
August 15, 2025

Child custody is one of the most important aspects of family law in Pennsylvania, as it directly impacts the well-being and future of your child. In any child custody case, the court’s primary objective is to establish a custody arrangement that serves the best interests of the child. This means looking closely at the child’s relationship with each parent, the stability of each parent’s home, and any concerns, such as drug or alcohol abuse, that could affect the child’s safety or development.

There are two main types of custody in Pennsylvania: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody refers to a parent’s right to make major decisions about the child’s life, including choices about medical care, education, and religious upbringing. Physical custody, on the other hand, determines where the child lives and which parent provides day-to-day care. Courts may award joint custody, where both parents share legal and/or physical custody, or grant primary custody to one parent, with the other parent receiving partial physical custody or visitation rights. Every custody arrangement is tailored to the unique needs of the child and family, with the court always prioritizing the child’s best interests.

Factors Considered by the Court in Child Custody Cases

When Pennsylvania courts decide on custody arrangements, they carefully evaluate a wide range of factors to ensure the child’s best interests are protected. One of the most significant considerations is the quality of the child’s relationship with each parent and with extended family members, as strong family bonds are essential for a child’s emotional health. The court also looks at each parent’s ability to communicate and cooperate, which is crucial for making joint decisions and maintaining a stable environment.

The child’s own preferences may be taken into account, especially if the child is mature enough to express a reasoned opinion. The court will also assess each parent’s physical and mental health, as well as any history of domestic violence, substance abuse, or alcohol abuse. If one parent has tried to alienate the child from the other parent or has interfered with the other parent’s involvement, this can negatively impact their custody claim. Geographic proximity between the parents’ homes, the child’s educational needs, and the potential impact on the child’s social life are also considered. Ultimately, the court aims to create a custody arrangement that allows for frequent and continuing contact with both parents, unless such contact would put the child at risk of physical or emotional harm.

3 Tips for Winning Your Child Custody Case in Pennsylvania

Being a parent, as you begin the divorce process, one of the most emotional and confusing aspects may revolve around child custody decisions. Regardless of your marital problems, you love your child and want to be involved in his or her life. Remember, it is crucial to always put your kids’ best interests first throughout the process. As a father, you may worry about the outcome of a child custody hearing. Even if the process feels overwhelming, do not lose hope—many parents face challenges, but persistence and optimism are important. It is important to know that Pennsylvania child custody laws are gender-neutral and based on the best interests of your child. Judges are responsible for making custody decisions, carefully considering the child’s best interests and all relevant factors.

This fact, however, does not guarantee that you will win your child custody case. Keep reading for three tips to increase your chances of success.

  • 1. Resolve parental fitness issues
  • 2. Clean up your online presence
  • 3. Be involved with your child

1. Resolve parental fitness issues

Pennsylvania courts take claims of substance abuse and addiction seriously. If your wife reports that you abuse alcohol or drugs, these claims will be investigated by the court. The court will also evaluate a parent’s ability to provide a safe and supportive environment for the child when making custody decisions. You may be forced to undergo drug testing or a psychological evaluation. Seek treatment for any addiction issues as soon as possible so you do not run into trouble when seeking custody. Providing evidence of treatment or sobriety can significantly strengthen your custody claim.

2. Clean up your online presence

If you are not careful, your social media accounts, emails, and text messages may be used against you and damage your argument. While going through a divorce, you may be tempted to vent using these communication channels. Make sure that you portray stability so your ex-spouse cannot use anything you say online against you. Remember, anything you present online could later be presented as evidence in court.

3. Be involved with your child

You might already provide for your child’s basic needs, such as housing, food, and clothing; however, if you want to obtain a favorable custody outcome, you should become more involved in other aspects of your child’s life. It is crucial to spend quality time and prioritize quality time with your child, as this supports their emotional well-being and strengthens your case. Maintaining positive relationships with both parents and cooperating in co-parenting is also important, as courts look favorably on parents who foster healthy relationships for the child’s best interest. Clear visitation schedules help provide stability for your children and facilitate cooperation between parents. Attend extracurricular activities and school conferences. By being actively involved in your children’s lives and prioritizing your children’s needs, you can demonstrate your parental involvement and fitness. Providing emotional support to your child during custody disputes is essential for their well-being and can positively influence the court’s decision.

Understanding the difference between primary physical custody, where the child lives predominantly with one parent, and other custody arrangements is important. You should also be aware of your custody rights, which are determined by the court based on the child’s best interest and overall well-being. 

The custody order and any custody orders issued by the court are significant legal documents that outline your rights and responsibilities. The court’s decision is always guided by the child’s best interest, considering various factors to ensure the child’s well-being and interest. Proper filing and knowing how to file necessary documents, such as petitions or appeals, is critical in custody cases to protect your rights. 

Child support is another important aspect, as it is closely related to custody arrangements and ensures the child’s needs are met. Avoid parental alienation, as any attempt to undermine the child’s relationship with the other parent can negatively impact the child’s well-being and is viewed seriously by the court.

By keeping these three tips in mind, you can improve your odds of achieving a favorable custody outcome in your divorce. Going through a custody battle is never easy, but you can take some simple steps to prove that you are an involved and loving father who wants to spend as much time as possible with your child. For more specific advice regarding your child custody case, contact a family law attorney at (215) 822-7575 or complete a contact form.


Established in 1952 by Irwin S. Rubin, Rubin, Glickman, Steinberg & Gifford P.C. boasts over 65 years of experience serving clients throughout Pennsylvania. Renowned for its commitment to ethical representation, the firm has garnered prestigious accolades, including being named the “Best Law Firm” for its outstanding legal defense work by U.S. News & World Report. Their team of seasoned attorneys, recognized as Pennsylvania Super Lawyers and Rising Stars, brings unparalleled expertise to a wide range of legal matters, ensuring exceptional representation for individuals, families, businesses, and organizations.


Facing a child custody dispute can be one of the most stressful experiences for any family, but you don’t have to go through it alone. By understanding the factors that influence custody decisions and focusing on your child’s best interests, you can make informed choices about your custody arrangement. Staying calm, being actively involved in your child’s life, and seeking guidance from an experienced family law attorney can make a significant difference in the outcome of your custody case.

Many families have found that working with a knowledgeable attorney helps them navigate custody proceedings with greater confidence and clarity. If you are dealing with a child custody dispute, consider scheduling a free consultation with a family law attorney to discuss your specific situation and receive support tailored to your needs. Remember, the court’s decision will always be guided by what is best for your child. By presenting a strong, well-prepared custody claim and demonstrating your commitment to your child’s well-being, you can work toward a custody arrangement that allows for frequent and meaningful contact, ensuring your child’s happiness and security for years to come.


Legally reviewed by:
Rubin, Glickman, Steinberg & Gifford P.C.
Pennsylvania Attorney's
August 15, 2025
Established in 1952 by Irwin S. Rubin, Rubin, Glickman, Steinberg & Gifford P.C. boasts over 65 years of experience serving clients throughout Pennsylvania. Renowned for its commitment to ethical representation, the firm has garnered prestigious accolades, including being named the "Best Law Firm" for its outstanding legal defense work by U.S. News & World Report. Their team of seasoned attorneys, recognized as Pennsylvania Super Lawyers and Rising Stars, brings unparalleled expertise to a wide range of legal matters, ensuring exceptional representation for individuals, families, businesses, and organizations.